Making the transition to college is a big step. Meeting people is a bigger step. Whether you are staying close to home or going far away, you will be surrounded by new faces all over campus. Thankfully, going to college offers several opportunities for you to meet new friends and fit right into the school’s community.
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Join an Organization
Every school offers clubs and organizations for their students, so there is bound to be an activity that interests you. These close-knit groups allow you to meet others who have similar interests, which makes starting conversations easier. The best time to find out about what organizations your school offers is during the first week of classes. Usually, an activities fair will be offered in which all the clubs and organizations on campus have booths full of information and sign-up sheets. Not only will you be able to learn about your options, but you will also be able to mingle with students who are interested as well.
Rush
Rush takes place usually a week or so prior to the start of classes, so you will be able to meet new friends before even stepping foot in the classroom. If you are unfamiliar with Rush, it is held by the sororities and fraternities on campus and is offered for those students who are interested in being involved in Greek life. Although it costs extra money to be a part of this community, it would be beneficial for those who have a hard time meeting people on their own.
Sororities and fraternities hold mixers and parties practically every week, so you will never have to worry about not having a social event to attend. If you do choose to participate in Rush, take the time to really get to know the people who interview you. This will allow you to see which sorority or fraternity would be a good fit for you.
Take a Team Building Course
Several schools offer courses that require group work or focus on team building. These courses are great for first-time college students. If you’re nervous about having to interact with different individuals on a daily basis, don’t be worried. Just remember that every student in that class is in the same situation as you and is looking for a friend as well!
Attend School Events
Reading the school’s newspaper or reading flyers around campus is the best way to find out what is going on in the community. Take the time to attend some different events to interact with different people and pick up some new hobbies!
Live On-Campus
Living on campus is the easiest way to make a new friend. Almost all freshmen are required to have a roommate their first year on campus, so take the time to get to know your roommate and what interests them. While you’re living in the dorms, check out some of the social events your RA puts on. This is a great way to bond with the people living in your hall.
Play Intramural Sports
Intramural sports are offered on almost every campus and provide recreation while also promoting new friendships. Simply find a sport you are interested in, sign up with your recreation center and you’ll be on a team before you know it. Get to know your new teammates outside of intramurals by asking them to dinner sometime, or to practice after class!
Remember, be yourself, and don’t be afraid to venture out of your shell. You will find meeting new people can be fun and very rewarding.
